What is the message?

OK, so I have been reading lots of blogs lately written by women like me who have suffered a loss. I also picked up the book I was given by a friend of a friend who suffers from a congenital heart disorder. I don't know why I am deliberately depressing myself. I am also trying not to get to stressed out about next school year. This is the time of year that things start changing, and I do NOT like change. So with all the things running around in my head, I have tried to find the quiet moments.
Today I took Grace to the pediatrician to see about her allergies. She has been miserable since the pollen count is astronomical here in Atlanta. She has red, itchy eyes, a runny nose, sneezing her head off and coughing occasionally too. As I was signing her in I happened to look at the name right above hers.....
It was a child named Brendan Daniel.........it took my breath away and I couldn't remember what I was doing. Then I looked in the next column to see what I was supposed to write, birthday. The child checked in above Grace was not only similar in name to my little angel but his birthday was my Brendan's angel day only he was two years older.

Now I know someone was trying to get a message to me. I am just trying to figure out what it is...................................................
Any thoughts, please let me know.